he /she ’ s feeling is just pure lust. The feeling you get after having a great sex can send you over to a new level of happiness making you blind from all the signs that your partner is not just so into you .
Yes , it 's good to get into a hook up once in a while as it doesn ’t give you any responsibilities to your partner but the problem starts when someone starts to demand something .
If you are a woman ,“I love you ” can mean hundred of different things when a man says it. Just because he says he loves you don ’t necessarily mean that he really do. He might just say those words so he can go under your pants and get what he wants from you . If you are not sure whether its love or just a physical desire, there are some signs that you need to take note .
1. Weekday lovers
If your guy has a virtual do not disturb sign up over the weekends, this is a clear sign that he is reserving weekends for someone else on his to-do list, or keeping his options open to meet other women. "Personally, when a girl is
just a girl I'm into for sex, I'll never ask her out on a weekend.
Weekends are strictly reserved for A-listers and new opportunities.
Lets take the Kenyan scenario, one invites you for blankets and wine and the other buzzes you on a random friday with Sepetuka tickets.
2. Sporadic contact
A guy who is really into you communicates with you regularly. A guy who is in it for the coochie, calls, texts, emails and pops-over only when he is feeling frisky and knows that you will indulge his desires. If the sight of your
man's name on your caller ID surprises you, chances are, this is a sex only situation. I hear chics saying he doesnt call or text
because he is too busy, unless he is a deep sea diver, no man would be too busy to text at least once or twice a day.
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3. Invitation to nowhere
You never get invited to anything meaningful like dinner, movie or lunch its always for his boys birthday party at his crib , a
random night with the boys . Bottom line: "Dates" are always cozy nights in. Why?
Because that is the easiest place to, you guessed it... to get laid. Everything falls into place its warm and cosy inside, the vibe is right, good music, you get tipsy, start dosing, offers shoulder, lips touch neck, lips connect , nearest bed is one second away and the rest
is history..got it ladies?
4. Time's up!
You spend just enough time together for a little foreplay, sex and maybe a nap. Unless there's time and desire for a round two, a
sex-only motivated man will vanish like a thief in the night before you even have time to nuzzle into little-spoon position. Sunday afternoon he says he is in the neighborhood,
you invite him over, he gets in you offer a drink, he insists that you join him too, 30 minutes later he is in and out of Canaan.
Next thing you know he is at the door getting his shoes back on heading over to Sheila's place to watch soccer.
5. Late-night lovers
A sure in-it-for-the-sex-only sign is when your man only reaches out to you after hours, when the day is done and quite possibly last call
has been shouted. Although he coos for you sweetly on the other end of the phone, perhaps begging for your hot body, just know that you might be on a long list of lovelies, any of one of whom can satisfy his sexual cravings for the evening. Ladies you know this
happens in July or those random Fridays when you re indoors alone, telly is boring and no movie, then he calls, makes you laugh and
suggests he can come over or invites you to his. Looking at your situation, you jump for it either way , its turning out to be one hell of a boring night.
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6. Tangoless texts
The sex-only guy is remorseless and feels no guilt whatsoever when it comes to leaving your texts unresponded to for hours - even
days - and sometimes doesn't respond at all.
Same goes for phone calls, emails, Facebook messages, tweets or any other form of communication. Problem is, the ones that respond promptly never get laid but the ones that dont get more than they can handle. It takes a mature girl who knows exactly what she wants to spare no time for a guy that isnt
courteous enough to revert.
7. Sexy speak
You two speak one language: Sex. And that's it. If you think hard about it, you may know everything about how he likes "it" but you
have no clue where his parents live, what he wanted to be when he grew up, his favorite meal, if he has a middle name. There's lots of
moaning and groaning but no chatter about work, family, friends, problems, triumphs, etc.
"A woman who presents herself as a sexual showpiece will be treated that way. Come to the table at the very beginning with more than just the ability to blow me away in the
bedroom. Blow away my mind too and that way I'll consider you relationship worthy.
eg if all the time he texts about how hot your bum looks on that snap you just posted on Instagram, be warned. If he is constantly on
your Instagram but doesnt even follow you on Twitter, chances are he is only interested in what he can see and not you have to say.
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